life really gets complicated as we grow older it's because as we traverse life, we get to experience so many things and meet different people where our character, values, honesty, patience, etc. etc. etc.. get tested all the time. unfortunately, as we age, because of all these pressures in life, we advertently learn to add layers on our core issues to cover up what we really feel. we get so adept at hiding what's real inside us that we can even fool ourselves! this is the sad reality of life. it is only when we learn to be true to ourselves and true to others that we can set ourselves free. in the process, we can hurt other people, but on the brighter side, we have helped them get rid of the layers they have on their core issues..... that's why there are people who can never understand us, and there will always be people whom we can never understand because we have added layers that stop us/them to understand everything.

nagmake sense ba? lol

Hay Si...linya ko..LIFE OH LIFE...I also adhere to the syaing...EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED...But what you really have to expect is...LIFE GETS HARDER AND HARDER AS WE GROW OLDER...to live with these depends on us...joy will always be part of our life as well as pain. Pain is at different levels as well. but I advise you to embrace it! Later on, you look back and say...damn I did it!

No matter what the obstacles we have in life, there are many ways to live life...We can dance our way through it....tango with a partner..or square dance with friends! Choose your friends wisely. Have friends who you know would always be there whenever you are down, friends who do not use you for personal gain, who will only be there when they need you...It is true real friends are those who criticize you...but the difference is..they are your true friends if they have the guts to say you're wrong right into your face...I don't need to tell you anymore what kind of friends they are when they criticize you at your back...but my best guess would be....THEY DON'T HAVE THE GUTS TO SAY YOU'RE WRONG UPFRONT BECAUSE THEY KNOW THEMSELVES THEY'RE WORSE PEOPLE THAN YOU ARE...AND DEFINITELY GREAT IN MAKING STORIES...You are young but there is more that meets the eye in you..you have your own principles, always stand up for it! When you know you are right, say it...but if you are not sure, keep quiet. As it is better to keep your silence if you are not sure of what to say, than be like others who doesn't even know what they're saying. Because people look up, not for what you have or who you are..but they look up to people who can stand for the right principles in life. you can buy everything with money except for RESPECT. When you lose that, you lose your capability of being human to others...

par eto lang po msasabi ko..
bkit mo hahayaan ang ibang tao n gawing komplikado ang buhay mo??
IT'S UR LIFE.... if kumplikado pra sa iba.. problema n nila un..hehehe.....
wag k mgpaapekto s mga taong nkpaligid syo n gngwang komplikado ang buhay mo....
kung lam mong tama ang gngwa mo at wla kng nsasagasaan go ahead...
ikaw ang nkkalam kung anu ang tama at mabuti para s iyo...
sabi nga "Remember, there are no mistakes, only lessons. Love yourself, trust your choices, and everything is possible"

Life is like a coin, there are 2 sides of it: in order for u to see d simplicity and beauty of life, u have to go through its complexity, and vice versa. The bad thing is, most often than not we get anxious that life is complicated and it pulls us in many directions and seems hard for us to get centered... haays